I came across this on All Pro Dad and really liked it.
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Includes his wife in envisioning the future.
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Is willing to say “I’m sorry” and “Forgive me” to his family.
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Discusses household responsibilities with his wife and makes sure they are fairly distributed.
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Seeks consultation from his wife on all major financing decisions.
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Follows through with commitments he has made to his wife.
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Anticipates the different stages his children will pass through.
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Anticipates the different stages his marriage will pass through.
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Frequently tells his wife what he likes about her.
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Provides financially for his family’s basic living expenses.
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Deals with distraction so he can talk with his wife and family.
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Prays with his wife on a regular basis.
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Initiates meaningful family traditions.
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Initiates fun family outings on a regular basis.
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Takes the time to give his children practical instruction about life.
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Manages the schedule of the home and anticipates pressure points.
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Keeps his family financially sound and out of harmful debt.
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Makes sure he and his wife have drawn up a will.
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Lets his wife and children into the interior of his life.
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Accepts spiritual responsibility for his family.
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Honors his wife in public.
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Explains sex to each child in a way that gives them a wholesome perspective.
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Encourages his wife to grow as an individual.
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Takes the lead in establishing sound family values.
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Provides time for his wife to pursue her own personal interests.
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Is involved in a small group of men dedicated to spiritual growth.